A story from a personal process in the clinic - in the house where he grew up, there was a sentence like this - "You will only cry when I die!" Until then, you have nothing to cry about!!" He shared with me, that he himself said this sentence to his sons. You probably know such phrases - "Well, why are you crying?" Be a man!", "What are you a woman? What are you whining about here?" From the moment he was born in whatever setting he was in, he heard sentences like this. Miraculously - like effective brainwashing - it worked. This man kept inside him for years, trauma and pain, sorrow and deep sadness, and he had no way, with whom and where to process and drain all of this...
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